Real Housewives Of Dubai: Chanel Ayan breaks down crying while describing being beaten by father

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Chanel Ayan broke down crying as she described how her father used to beat her when she was a girl on Wednesday’s episode of The Real Housewives of




Chanel Ayan broke down crying as she described how her father used to beat her when she was a girl on Wednesday’s episode of The Real Housewives of Dubai.

‘I’ve forgiven a lot of people in life but forgiving my father is the hardest thing I could do,’ Chanel, 43, said. ‘Twenty six years I’ve never spoken to him. If you know the stuff that he’s done to me, he wanted to marry me off at 14 years old.’

Chanel had gone to see Dr. Sara Al Madani, 36, and told her that she thought her father’s repeated abuse was what triggered her hostile reaction toward Caroline Stanbury, 45, at Nina Ali’s dinner party.

Childhood abuse: Chanel Ayan broke down crying as she described how her father used to beat her when she was a girl on Wednesday's episode of The Real Housewives of Dubai

Childhood abuse: Chanel Ayan broke down crying as she described how her father used to beat her when she was a girl on Wednesday's episode of The Real Housewives of Dubai

Childhood abuse: Chanel Ayan broke down crying as she described how her father used to beat her when she was a girl on Wednesday’s episode of The Real Housewives of Dubai

Chanel said that one day her father left their family deciding that he didn’t want to be a father anymore. She said her mother was left by herself with kids. She said once when she was seven that her father got upset with her and tied her to a tree when it was raining.

‘My whole entire life all he has done is beat me,’ Chanel said as she broke down crying. ‘He beat me so bad that I ran away with my other sister.’

‘I don’t want to cry but honestly…forgiving him is not something I can do today or tomorrow,’ Chanel said crying. ‘It’s not.’

‘I want to f***ing get this stuff out of my soul,’ Chanel said. ‘I have my husband that f***ing adores the sh** out of me. He makes me feel so safe. My dad never gave that to me ever.’

Ran away: 'My whole entire life all he has done is beat me,' Chanel said as she broke down crying. 'He beat me so bad that I ran away with my other sister'

Ran away: 'My whole entire life all he has done is beat me,' Chanel said as she broke down crying. 'He beat me so bad that I ran away with my other sister'

Ran away: ‘My whole entire life all he has done is beat me,’ Chanel said as she broke down crying. ‘He beat me so bad that I ran away with my other sister’

Chanel said that experience with her abusive father was why she was so triggered at Nina’s dinner when Caroline Stanbury kept saying, ‘I don’t like you.’

Sara suggested that she consider trying hypnotherapy. Sara said she had been with partners who would physically and mentally abuse her and in the past could also be triggered easily.


‘I know what it feels like to be in a dark place,’ Sara said in a confessional.

Got triggered: Chanel said that experience with her abusive father was why she was so triggered at Nina's dinner when Caroline Stanbury kept saying, 'I don't like you'

Got triggered: Chanel said that experience with her abusive father was why she was so triggered at Nina's dinner when Caroline Stanbury kept saying, 'I don't like you'

Got triggered: Chanel said that experience with her abusive father was why she was so triggered at Nina’s dinner when Caroline Stanbury kept saying, ‘I don’t like you’

Sara told Chanel that she was going to introduce her to a hypnotherapist so she could work on getting rid of all these feelings.

The episode titled G.O.A.T opened with Sara making a cake with her son Maktoum, 6.

‘I have been raising my son as a single mom since the day he was born,’ Sara said in a confessional.

Single mom: The episode titled G.O.A.T opened with Sara making a cake with her son Maktoum, 6

Single mom: The episode titled G.O.A.T opened with Sara making a cake with her son Maktoum, 6

Single mom: The episode titled G.O.A.T opened with Sara making a cake with her son Maktoum, 6

Sara showed her son how to eat their dinner on the floor with their hands the traditional way her grandmother did it.

‘I serioiusly don’t wanna do this. For real,’ Maktoum said.

‘Just try,’ Sara said.

Over it: 'I don't want to do this for real,' Maktoum said.

Over it: 'I don't want to do this for real,' Maktoum said.

Over it: ‘I don’t want to do this for real,’ Maktoum said.

‘I seriously don’t want to do this,’ Maktoum said.

They then moved to the table to have dinner.

Caroline Brooks, 37, met Lesa Milan, 33, for dinner. Caroline Brooks asked her if she had seen Nina’s Instagram where she wrote ‘every blonde needs a brunette bestie.’

‘Please explain to me when Nina Ali became best friends with Caroline Stanbury,’ Caroline B. said.

Catching up: Caroline Brooks, 37, met Lesa Milan, 33, for dinner

Catching up: Caroline Brooks, 37, met Lesa Milan, 33, for dinner

Catching up: Caroline Brooks, 37, met Lesa Milan, 33, for dinner

Lesa said in a confessional that Nina had said some horrible things to her about Caroline Stanbury.

‘Some of the things she said were so horrible, I won’t even repeat it,’ Lesa said in a confessional. ‘She’s ghetto. She’s ratchet. She’s trashy. Those are the good things.’

Lesa asked her how things were between her and Chanel.

Good question: Lesa asked her how things were between her and Chanel

Good question: Lesa asked her how things were between her and Chanel

Good question: Lesa asked her how things were between her and Chanel

‘We fight like hell and then we kiss and make up,’ Caroline Brooks said.

Sara and Caroline Brooks went over to visit with Caroline Stanbury at her house and they talked about the dinner at Nina’s and the blowup with Chanel.

‘She came for me really strong and I’ve never been anything but a friend,’ Caroline B. said. ‘I was hurt by that.’

Drama recap: Sara and Caroline Brooks went over to visit with Caroline Stanbury at her house and they talked about the dinner at Nina's and the blowup with Chanel

Drama recap: Sara and Caroline Brooks went over to visit with Caroline Stanbury at her house and they talked about the dinner at Nina's and the blowup with Chanel

Drama recap: Sara and Caroline Brooks went over to visit with Caroline Stanbury at her house and they talked about the dinner at Nina’s and the blowup with Chanel

‘Obviously the girl got triggered and people that went through trauma feel like everything is…’ Sarah said.

‘Trauma from not being invited?’ Caroline S. said.

‘I think we should leave her better than we found her,’ Sara said.

‘I’m very sorry if she has had trauma in her life but she’s not going to add to mine,’ Caroline S. said.

Chanel, wearing a blonde wig and Givenchy coat and boots, went to have lunch with Nina.

Givenchy items: Chanel, wearing a blonde wig and Givenchy coat and boots, went to have lunch with Nina

Givenchy items: Chanel, wearing a blonde wig and Givenchy coat and boots, went to have lunch with Nina

Givenchy items: Chanel, wearing a blonde wig and Givenchy coat and boots, went to have lunch with Nina

Expensive boots: She wore $1,100 Givenchy boots

Expensive boots: She wore $1,100 Givenchy boots

Expensive boots: She wore $1,100 Givenchy boots

‘I am the queen of fashion,’ Chanel said in a confessional. ‘It’s like I’m Rihanna and then Nina’s mashed potatoes with no butter, plain.’

Chanel asked said she wanted to apologize to Nina after the drama that happened at her dinner party, but was also mad at her for not sticking up for her.

‘I came in knowing that I was excluded from hanging out with all of you,’ Chanel said. ‘And that really triggered me because me and you have discussed how I grew up with my Dad and how emotional I am.’

Plain potatoes: 'I am the queen of fashion,' Chanel said in a confessional. 'It's like I'm Rihanna and then Nina's mashed potatoes with no butter, plain'

Plain potatoes: 'I am the queen of fashion,' Chanel said in a confessional. 'It's like I'm Rihanna and then Nina's mashed potatoes with no butter, plain'

Plain potatoes: ‘I am the queen of fashion,’ Chanel said in a confessional. ‘It’s like I’m Rihanna and then Nina’s mashed potatoes with no butter, plain’

‘I went home and I was crying because I just felt like I was that little girl that was not good enough,’ Chanel said.

Nina said she felt that she and Caroline S. have misunderstood each other. Nina said she didn’t like Caroline S. when she first met her, either.

‘She was not my cup of tea,’ Nina said. ‘But I gave her the chance.’


A misunderstanding: Nina said she felt that she and Caroline Stanbury have misunderstood each other

A misunderstanding: Nina said she felt that she and Caroline Stanbury have misunderstood each other

A misunderstanding: Nina said she felt that she and Caroline Stanbury have misunderstood each other

Nina asked her to give Caroline Stanbury one more chance to put the flames out.

‘There’s no flames, there’s a volcano,’ Chanel said.

Lesa went shopping in the non-Muslim section of the supermarket with her son to find the bacon that they like and for Thanksgiving food to make for dinner. Lesa went home and cooked the Thanksgiving dinner.

Thanksgiving shopping: Lesa went shopping in the non-Muslim section of the supermarket with her son to find the bacon that they like

Thanksgiving shopping: Lesa went shopping in the non-Muslim section of the supermarket with her son to find the bacon that they like

Thanksgiving shopping: Lesa went shopping in the non-Muslim section of the supermarket with her son to find the bacon that they like

Nina and her family had Thanksgiving dinner with Sara in a rotating eye over Dubai.

‘When I met my husband he literally had nothing when we started together,’ Nina said in a confessional. ‘There was a time in my life where I worked four jobs, seven days a week. I know how to hustle.’

Nina said her now husband flew to America every couple of weeks when he was courting her.

High dinner: Nina and her family had Thanksgiving dinner with Sara in a rotating eye over Dubai

High dinner: Nina and her family had Thanksgiving dinner with Sara in a rotating eye over Dubai

High dinner: Nina and her family had Thanksgiving dinner with Sara in a rotating eye over Dubai

‘He became a platinum member because of me,’ Nina said.

Sara said she had been married two times but that she picked the wrong men.

Chanel showed up at Lesa’s house for her home cooked Thanksgiving meal with her husband Chris and son with a baby goat as a gift.

Goat gift: Chanel showed up at Lesa's house for her home cooked Thanksgiving meal with her husband Chris and son with a baby goat as a gift

Goat gift: Chanel showed up at Lesa's house for her home cooked Thanksgiving meal with her husband Chris and son with a baby goat as a gift

Goat gift: Chanel showed up at Lesa’s house for her home cooked Thanksgiving meal with her husband Chris and son with a baby goat as a gift

‘In Jamaica this animal would definitely be in somebody’s pot,’ said Lesa. ‘We would curry it.’

‘The reason I brought you a goat is because in Kenya if somebody shows you love and you invite my family to your house, you give them something that’s so special to you,’ Chanel said. ‘In our country goats are so important.’

‘We are going to keep the goat,’ Lesa said.

Important gift: 'The reason I brought you a goat is because in Kenya if somebody shows you love and you invite my family to your house, you give them something that's so special to you,' Chanel said. 'In our country goats are so important'

Important gift: 'The reason I brought you a goat is because in Kenya if somebody shows you love and you invite my family to your house, you give them something that's so special to you,' Chanel said. 'In our country goats are so important'

Important gift: ‘The reason I brought you a goat is because in Kenya if somebody shows you love and you invite my family to your house, you give them something that’s so special to you,’ Chanel said. ‘In our country goats are so important’

While they were talking, the goat fell in the pool and they rescued it. Lesa said that Nina wanted to get Chanel and Caroline Stanbury together to talk.

‘I don’t know when Nina became Dalai Lama,’ Chanel said. ‘I don’t know why we have to sit down and talk. I don’t want to sit down with Stanbury.’


‘She showed me she is mean,’ Chanel said in a confessional. ‘There’s an issue with her.’

Reluctant participant: 'I don't know when Nina became Dalai Lama,' Chanel said. 'I don't know why we have to sit down and talk. I don't want to sit down with Stanbury'

Reluctant participant: 'I don't know when Nina became Dalai Lama,' Chanel said. 'I don't know why we have to sit down and talk. I don't want to sit down with Stanbury'

Reluctant participant: ‘I don’t know when Nina became Dalai Lama,’ Chanel said. ‘I don’t know why we have to sit down and talk. I don’t want to sit down with Stanbury’

The goat then escaped into the neighborhood slipping through the house gates.

‘You should see what I’m going to bring her next,’ Chanel said laughing.

The Real Housewives of Dubai will return next Wednesday on Bravo.

Gone goat: The goat then escaped into the neighborhood slipping through the house gates

Gone goat: The goat then escaped into the neighborhood slipping through the house gates

Gone goat: The goat then escaped into the neighborhood slipping through the house gates